I was going to title this “A quick thought about awesome people I actually know”, but then I remembered that I haven’t ever actually met JR Blackwell (though we were at the same school for an overlapping year).
One of the things I love about the internet is how it allows you to get to know people. This is a dangerously double edged sword however. Sometimes I have to remind myself that I don’t actually *know* Neil Gaiman, though I do know the names of all of his children, his dog, and at least three of his cats. Nor do I know Heather Armstrong, though I have read in depth about her struggle with depression, her marriage, her child, and her poop. I don’t know Hava and Tadd, or their babies but for some reason I followed them through their experience in the NICU, and when they update about the babies now, I smile a little bit and feel happy.
I can’t explain why any of these people would want to share their private lives on the internet. I can look at the individuals and see what their particular motives may have been, and in all of them, it is Dooce’s blog that I feel most closely resembles what I am trying to achieve by writing on the internet. I doubt I will ever be as successful as she is, and that is fine.
Those are all awesome people, but I wanted to come back to some awesome people that I actually KNOW (or almost know).

Meg Favreau of Gladys Makes Things is one of my most serendipitous friends. We met at a They Might Be Giants show in downtown Denver in 2002. We bonded over blue hair and nose rings. She gave my brother and I a ride to our car in her awesome GMC truck. I WANTED that truck. Meg makes (and sells) not only things, but REALLY NEAT things. I own the shirt she is wearing in the picture. It is one of my favorite shirts ever. Right up there with my Batman shirt (little boy’s pj top with a cape).

Jared Axelrod is the creator of Free PlanetX. We were at Guilford College at the same time, and we were in an English class together. It was an English class that met at 9:30 on Tuesday morning September 11, 2001. I think Jared was there that day, at least he was in my memory, cause in my memory he was sitting next to me. The professor had us move our chairs into a circle, and we just talked about what was going on in the world for a couple of minutes before he dismissed the class to let us watch the news. Memory is a fallible beast, but in mine, I was sitting next to Jared Axelrod at a moment that my children will be reading about in their history books. Also, I was on his podcast once.
JR Blackwell is not someone I actually know. She is however, someone with whom I have exchanged electronic communication. She is someone who has followed her dreams, and she is someone that inspires me. Her art is very different from mine, but I love it all the more so for that. She seems very intentional, and I admire that very much. I’d also like to think that if I ever actually trek the two hours up 95 to Philly, I could call JR and Jared and we could probably get a beer or something.



